Sunday 1 April 2012

Break ups

Everyone has a point in their life where they think they are ready to settle down and start looking for 'THE RIGHT ONE', some go through procedures in their life to make sure they have that look they think the 'RIGHT ONE' is looking for. What does the ''Right One'' even mean to you? When i hear the right one, i think of a Man that is ready to settle down with me, a man that is ready to commit himself to me a man that is 100% down for me, not a man that has no respect for me, a man that only wants me because of what i give him which is sex. NO.  Girls go bonkers when they are on the search for Mr Right whether it be getting them B cups to a D cup or that size 8 ass to a size 12 ass. Why do all those things just to end up with a man that don't want you because of your humor or your character.
So you find the right one, you find that boy that anytime you see him you feel like there's no one else around but you and him, you feel like he is the only man for you and no-one else can replace him till he does the unthinkable and breaks your heart..... 

Honestly getting over your ex is not as easy as you think, you think if you just stop talking to him & delete him out of your life, magically all the feelings you had for him will somehow disappear? Oh hell to the f*** no! We really got some girls that break up with their ex that they have been with for a long period of time & 3 weeks into their break-up they are claiming they are over them? You know God told us not to lie? You want God to strike your ass right? Because right now you are killing me, it is highly unlikey you can get over someone you've gotten so comfortable with, someone you thought was your everything, just like that its done, scratch that it is IMPOSSIBLE. So at night when you are thinking about them wrapped up in bed, crying? Oh that means you over them? Bullsh**! You try to talk to other people to try forget about them, you really trying to convince yourself you are ready to let go, but really your heart is not ready to leave him in the past. Ok quick question: You ever get out of a relationship and people ask you are you ok and sh** and you forever replying 'Im good i aint thinking about no boy especially not kyle eurgh he is so old news, i got Jordan hitting my phone up i am so good' but we all know, you don't want Jordan, or any other boys, you want your kyle back. You have to be honest with yourself. You have to get a grip. You have to get yourself together. This won't happen over night, fuck no you gotta put in work too. No one else can help you but yourself, when you ready to let go, you will let go. Oh and don't be that creepy girl that likes to tweet watch him or stalk his facebook, cos that will not help you, because then you will be wondering who he is hitting up, who he trying to bring over, and trust me if you find that he bring 'Latisha, Keisha or Cara' over you  going to find yourself in jail that night. Lets just not go there. Oh oh oh also why do Girls think eating ice cream will get you over a break up, i mean eating ice cream is a fun thing to do, i do it all the time, while im watching TV, while im reading books while im in the toil--- nevermind. Yes ice cream lovely thing, but why you wanna get all fat because a boy broke your heart? You got to show him that you look sexy with or without him, after a break up you gotta bring that Beyonce side of you, not that precious side of you! Stop with the ice cream eating ladies it won't help! There is nothing wrong with being single, don't feel forced to move on because he has found another boo, you better embrace the single life. DONT EVER TRY AND GET BACK WITH THEM IF THEY DID YOU  WRONG, Once a cheater Always a mother fuc**** cheater! The break up happened for a reason right? Don't force it please. I guarantee you will find someone that won't do you wrong, i know you are in denial because at one point they were your everything but life, goes on. I hate people who be like 'f*** you crying for? He did you wrong don't cry you much better than that man' Like NO! I just got my heartbroken and you really telling me not to cry? Imma cry till i want to, if he dumped me on May 3rd imma cry all the way to June 5th if i want to, crying helps just cry all your sorrow away and don't worry because better days will come. 

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